On the flip side, the majority of the state of California voted to WRITE INTO THEIR CONSTITUTION A BAN AGAINST SAME-SEX MARRIAGE.

How can a constitution DENY RIGHTS?

So now, all the tens of thousands of couples who already entered into the marriage contract may be told, “Whoops! It turns out you’re actually NOT citizens! Your marriage is annulled! Sorry! But we can still be neighbors and friends and co-workers, right?”

What. The. Fuck.

You want to talk about change?

How about recognizing ALL citizens as having inalienable rights?

The New York Times Online has an article by Adam Nagourney entitled, “Ruling May Revive Gay Marriage as Issue”.

Revive?

It’s ALWAYS been “an issue”. Whether or not presidential politicians want to speak publicly on the subject is a different issue altogether. They’re too busy trying to get as many votes as possible, alternately caving to competing sides until they’re so in the middle it doesn’t matter which one you vote for.

For until two women or two men* can legally enter the marriage contract, it will remain “an issue”.

We need to question what type of “issue” the same-sex marriage issue truly is.

For just like the bumper sticker proclaiming evolution to be some sort of hoax, so too do groups of folks proclaim same-sex marriage to be some sort of threat to the institution of marriage as a whole. Where do people come up with these ideas?

Walking home with The Partner tonight, I remarked on how moved I was to read about couples publicly celebrating the California court ruling.

To publicly celebrate being able to enter into a state contract.

My mind boggles that such a thing has to happen.

Same-sex marriage, as it is so called, is an issue of “separate-but-equal” treatment, which, as has been shown, is NOT equal.

Listening to NPR today I became enraged at a woman they interviewed who was “against” same-sex marriage because it “threated marriage”. First I couldn’t believe NPR actually gave air-time to this person, and second, that she would rather actively participate in the prohibition, the denial of two fellow citizens’ rights than mind her own relationships and legal contracts.

What the fuck kind of mentality is this?

I actively question folks I know on their reasons for entering the marriage contract, if they are so privileged to legally do so. Thus far their answers have been a resounding “for the benefits”. Benefits such as sharing health insurance packages. Benefits such as sharing the right to decide how their lives, both independently and jointly, should be lived.

With reality surrounding you, if you can’t fathom evolution or reason as to why two consenting adults should not be able to enter a contract of their choosing, then you’re an idiot.

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*However we shall define those terms.

A growing number of Evangelical Christians believe there is a revival underway in America that requires Christian youth to assume leadership roles in advocating the causes of their religious movement. Jesus Camp follows a group of young children to Pastor Becky Fischer’s “Kids on Fire Summer Camp”, where kids are taught to become dedicated Christian soldiers in God’s army and are schooled in how to take back America for Christ. The film is a first-ever look into an intense training ground that recruits born-again Christian children to become an active part of America’s political future.

Here’s the trailer: It is no longer available.

And a “get it while you can” heads-up, here is the entire film in several parts on YouTube:
It is no longer available, due to copyright issues.

This film should be viewed, especially by those of us outside the Evangelical cult community — or those of us without children with whom we can journey to the Kids on Fire Summer Camp to see this stuff first-hand. Give copies to your family, friends, and neighbors.

Generally, the first realm of socialization for an individual is the family. Thus the film begins by taking the viewer into the homes and lives of several Evangelical families, most of which home-school their children. While Evangelical home-schooling is something worthy of investigation itself, this portion of the film is especially frightening — even for us non-educators — due to the amount of brainwashing and misinformation being passed on to these children under the guise of education.

For example, Levi’s mother can be seen using Exploring Creation with Physical Science, a textbook which “begins with a detailed discussion of the world around you and what makes it work. It will then take you out into the universe so that you may learn the majesty of God’s Creation”, from which she reads:

“One popular thing to do in American politics is to note that the summers in the United States over the past few years have been very warm. As a result, global warming must be real. What’s wrong with this reasoning?”

Levi replies, “It’s only gone up 0.6 degrees.”

His mother, apparently a climatologist, says, “Yeah, it’s not really a big problem, is it?”

The beginning scenes are not the worst, however, as we follow the families to their week at the summer camp. To say that these children are shamed, guilted, and otherwise emotionally beaten into religious submission would be a nice way of putting what we see happening on the screen. I cannot believe this shit is legal.

Children, according to Pastor Becky Fischer,

are so usable in Christianity. If you look at the world’s population, one-third of that 6.7 billion people are children under the age of fifteen. One-third. Where should we be putting our efforts? Where should we be putting our focus? I’ll tell you where our enemies are putting it: they’re putting it on the kids. They’re going into the schools — you go into Palestine, and I can take you to some websites that will absolutely shake you to your foundations, and show you photographs, of where they’re taking their kids to camps like we take our kids to bible camps, and they’re putting hand grenades in their hands, and they’re teaching them how to put on bomb belts, they’re teaching them how to use rifles, they’re teaching them how to use machine guns — it’s no wonder, with that kind of intense training and discipling, that those young people are ready to kill themselves for the cause of Islam. I wanna see young people who are as committed to the cause of Jesus Christ as the young people are to the cause of Islam. I wanna see them as radically laying down their lives for the gospel, as they are over in Pakistan, in Israel, and Palestine, and all those different places. You know, because we have — excuse me! — but we have the truth!

I think it’s time for a nation-wide intervention.

Your thoughts?

The Partner and I heard about the “production”, Final Exit, through a friend the night before. He had seen an ad in the campus newspaper for it and checked out their website. “I’m not sure exactly what it is, but the site had religious undertones.” We searched the Internet for more information and found (http://www.jconline.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20051019/OPINION02/510190306/1100/OPINION) a letter to the editor in the local paper:

During the weekend, I chose to visit the new attraction, “Final Exit,” with some friends, thinking this was going to be a haunted house type walk-through, not a direct attack on one’s religion.

For those who don’t know about it, it follows one teenager as she struggles with pregnancy, drunken driving, an abusive family, abortion, suicide, school shooting and Harry Potter.

That sealed the deal.

“Final Exit: Extreme Reality” is produced by a Louisiana-based corporation, (http://missionarytracker.com/content/missionaryDetail.aspx?missionaryID=c2fe8ee6-9ec2-4e5f-9964-9652b9a35166)* Radical Reality Productions, Inc. They get churches to host the production, an attempt to “harvest” the “unchurched” and is “all about souls”. We were mighty lucky to get them all the way up here at “Perdue University” .

The flash introduction to their website says:

You’ve been to haunted houses… but you’ve never been… to HELL. Hell is here… and it’s brutal… experience it… for yourself… if you dare.

The only other information you’re given is the following:

Final Exit… a 40 minute, brutal, in your face, extreme, multi-dimensional, 11 scene, reality tour… with over 100 live actors, high-tech visuals and special effects that will assualt your senses and captivate you! Think you can “Survive It?” I dare you to try!

You can expand this entry to read my scene-by-scene summary of our experiences (warning: there were many scenes and thus my summary is a bit lengthy).

So Saturday after dinner we drove out to the given address, a location neither The Partner nor I had been to, just to check out the scene and see how long the line would be. We knew we were getting close when we saw the spotlight, plus the van in front of us we were following had a “God Bless the Troops” magnetic ribbon and “Choose Life” bumper sticker.

Although the wait was about an hour, we bought our $9 tickets, signed our fake names, and generally caused a ruckus while waiting roughly 45 minutes to get checked for weapons and other such items. Walking the grounds were men in SECURITY shirts, talking to each other over headsets. That got us even more excited because if they needed at least 10 security men to patrol the area, what type of crazy shit were we in for?

We were not allowed to bring cameras, lighters, matches, or weapons (they didn’t say anything about paper and pens). Gals were checked by another gal and the guys were checked by this massive guy with a large cross around his neck. They had a hand-held metal detector and the women at the table checked bags and purses. When I told the woman who grabbed at my bag, “No, I’ll hold my bag for now”, she got this strange look on her face like no one had said that to her before.

Although the metal detector went off (?), the gal looked at me and said, “You’re okay, I trust you”, and moved me through. I watched as the woman rummaged around in my bag, pausing to examine my cigarette case with the “Wal-Mart Discriminates — Always” sticker, looked at me, and said “You’re fine.”

In a group of about 40, we waited a few more minutes before a security man walked over to us.

“I need to know if any of you are pregnant, weak of heart, or sensitive to strobe lights. No? Okay, here’s what I need for you all to do: You’ll be escorted inside to the first room. We ask that you don’t touch the escorts and assure you that they won’t touch you. In each room I need for you to get as close to the yellow tape as possible. Does anyone have any physical problems kneeling down? I need for the people in front to kneel down so that the others can see. Make sure to get close to the yellow tape. When you get inside the first room you’ll see a beam of light. I need for you all to encircle the beam of light, as close as you can, just huddle around the beam of light. Alright! Let’s go!”

We were escorted into the building and waited maybe a minute before being lead into a room. Sure enough, the room was dark and a beam of light was coming from the ceiling. Everybody squeezed in around it, the door was closed, and we stood there and waited. Then the beam of light went off and some spooky midi-sounding music started. Lights were flashing and a voice came over the speakers. I can’t remember the exact wording, but it was something along the lines of “You’re about to enter Hell on earth. The choices we make can come back to get us in the end.” Then someone screamed “Turn around! Turn around!”

The lights went off and flashed back on, and in front of us were several actors in black robes with dark faces.

“Choices,” they whispered along with the recorded voice. “Choices.”

Then a door opened and we were screamed at by the ghouls in robes, “Move it! Get out of here! Faster! MOVE!”

We walked into a party scene. Teenagers were sitting around on couches, talking loudly, listening to Marilyn Manson, eating junk food, drinking beer and smoking weed. The main character, Kim, was arguing with her belligerently drunk boyfriend. Then she said, “Mark, I need to tell you something. I took a test today and I’m pregnant.”

“What?! That’s not possible. That’s a lie! It’s not mine!” Then the boyfriend stormed around the scene, throwing beer cans at the wall. Kim got up to leave and the boyfriend got physical, pushing other characters and throwing Kim onto the couch.

Then a knock came at the door. “Mark, it’s me, Sarah.”

“Go away! I don’t want to talk to you!”

Another fight ensues between Kim and Mark, something about cheating, and Mark yells a few more times to Sarah’s voice behind the door. Sarah says that if Mark would just tell her he doesn’t love her she would go away, so Mark yells, “I hate you! Leave me alone!” — and then a gun goes off.

Mark opens the door and Sarah falls to the floor, a blood splatter dripping down the door. All characters scream in horror and the scene ends, with Sarah lying on the floor, fake blood oozing from her gaping mouth.

A ghoul steps out of the shadows and proceeds to lecture/preach at us for a couple minutes. He walks around the scene, picking up beer cans, warning us about “these dangerous” effects of alcohol, drugs, and premarrital sex. He walked over to Sarah’s body, plays with the fake blood and licks his fingers. Some condoms are on the coffee table and he picks one up, holding it in front of the shocked audience.

“You thought you were protected. They tell you you’re protected. HA! These are the choices you make. Now get out of my house! MOVE IT!” More ghouls appeared and screamed at us again.

The next scene was a living room and Mom and Dad were having a fight in front of their teenage son and two young daughters. On the teevee was some NASCAR footage, Dad was in his lounger drinking beer and Mom was yelling at him for being a lazy good-for-nothin’. They stood up and started pushing each other, Mom grabbing some lottery tickets and throwing them in Dad’s face, all the while screaming at each other about Internet porn or something.

“All you do is gamble and throw our money away!”

“Shut up, woman – you nag! Didn’t I tell you to get me another beer?!”

In walks Kim, who is stoned and drowsy. Dad says, “Hey good lookin’, I’m glad you’re home.” He approaches her and touches her hair. Kim pushes by and sits on the couch.

“What’s that all about?” Asks Mom.

“You know what it’s about! You know all about it and you don’t do anything!” Screams Kim.

They argue a bit more and the brother tries to stop them. He gets frustrated, throws the Harry Potter book he was reading on the table and stands up.

“I can’t take this anymore! Look at what you’re doing in from of them [pointing to the little girls]!” He makes for the door but Dad stands up and pushed him against the wall. They yell at each other and Mom gets up, pulling on Dad. They scuffle around and Mom grabs a bat and is about to whack the shit out of Dad when the scene ends and the actors freeze.

A ghoul steps forward and preaches at us about domestic violence.

“Look at this scene. This happens in families across the nation. Violence in movies and on teevee – this is what you get. Harry Potter is a best-seller, raking in millions of dollars. We even allow this to be taught in our public schools! You’ve got the nagging wife and the drunken father. These are the choices you make.” And the other ghouls whisper “CHOICES” into our ears. “Now get out of my house!” Yells the main ghoul, and we all go to the next room.

We’re now in a hallway of a high school. The brother of the family is standing in the middle, arguing with his soon-to-be ex-girlfriend. They break up and recorded voices come on as random students pick on him and taunt him. “You’re such a loser!” “You’re weird!” “Eeew! Get away from me!” A teacher walks up and pushes a paper with a big F written on it against his chest. “You’re such a disappointment.”

The brother starts talking to himself, trying to figure out what to do. The recorded voice switches and whispers, “Do it. Do it.”

He pulls out a gun, says, “I know what I can do,” and shoots everybody in the hallway, shoots himself, and the scene ends.

The ghoul steps up and says, “School shootings! Little Jimmy made the choice to deal with his problems through murder! All because of an unhappy home life, failing grades, and relationship troubles. [The ghoul grabs his ex's binder.] Upset over Jessica experimenting with an alternative lifestyle. [The binder had the girlfriend's name *hearts* Jimmy, but Jimmy was crossed out.] And we tell people they’re born that way! It’s all about CHOICES. But Kim has a “doctor’s appointment” [the actor actually made the quotation marks hand gestures] tomorrow morning at 10 o’clock, so get out of my hallway! GET OUT OF HERE!”

As soon as we enter the next room you can tell this is the abortion scene. We all huddle around the glass windows with drawn curtains and wait.

The curtains are pulled back and there is Kim, spread eagle on an operating table, feet in stirrups. A doctor is between her legs and there are two nurses on either side.

“Will it hurt?” Kim asks.

“Be quiet and wait for the doctor!” Yells a nurse.

“Tell me if it will hurt! I don’t want it to hurt! Wait! Stop! I don’t want to do this!”

“Shut up! You’ve made your choice, now shut up!” Yells the other nurse and they restrain Kim. “We’re ready when you are, doctor.”

The doctor squeezes some liquid out of a huge needle and pretends to inject Kim. She screams. Audience members jump. He grabs some knives and gets to work, all the while Kim is screaming her head off and trying to get free from the nurses who are holding her down.

The doctor throws some bloody slop that looks like bacon and a doll’s head into a pan and throws the pain onto a table in front of the windows. The audience moves in. The scene darkens.

A beam of light shines down onto the “fetus” and a recorded child’s voice plays.

“Mommy? Mommy, it hurts. Why’d you do it, Mommy?”

Kim screams and apologizes profusely. Black lights turn on and painted on the walls are several words including “Murderer” and “Baby Killer”.

“Mommy? Don’t you love me? Mommy? Why’d you kill me, Mommy?”

The scene ends with Kim screaming. The ghoul preaches at us about allowing the murder “of innocents”, “with the government’s approval”. “Get out of my clinic!”

The next scene is a two-car accident. At least 40 beer cans are strewn about the ground, and teens are hanging out of the broken windows or crumpled up on the ground. A gal wakes up and stumbles around the scene.

“Oh my God! What did we do?! This can’t be happening! Oh my God!” She collapses against a body and the scene ends.

The ghoul preaches about teen parties, alcohol, drunk driving, and “the choices we make”.

“Think of this scene the next time you think about getting in the car with someone who’s been drinking! Now get off of my highway!”

In the next room, Kim is sitting on her bed listening to Nine Inch Nails’ “Something I Can Never Have” from Pretty Hate Machine — one of my favorite albums (and song) from my own teen years, by the way. She’s crying and starts to pace the room.

“I’m so ugly! Nobody like me! I’m so horrible!”

A baby’s voice comes over the speakers, “Mommy? Where are you, Mommy?”

“I’m here! I’m sorry I killed you! I’m so sorry! I hate myself!”

Kim pulls a gun from under the mattress and contemplates killing herself. The ghoul eggs her on: “Just do it. ‘Make it all go away’, Kim. Do it. You’re such a good Mommy – you loved your baby TO DEATH. Do it!”

Kim puts the gun under her chin and pulls the trigger, her body flying back onto the bed. The scene ends.

The ghoul tells us a statistic: “Every day, 720 people commit suicide,” and goes on about the choices we make coming back to haunt us and asks us what our “final judgement day” will be like.

“Life is about choices! We all make choices! What choices have you made? How will those choices affect you? Go see for yourself! Get out of my room!”

We were then ushered into a room with a row of upright coffins. The ghouls pushed us all in, four to a box. I’m extremely glad The Partner was behind me, because once they shut the doors we were crammed in and pushed against each other. A voice came over the speakers and said we were headed for death, to our “final appointment”. We were told we were going to hell “because of the personal choices” we made. “Is this a price you’re willing to pay for your choices?”

The gal in front of me was crying and praying to Jesus. The young (12-13?) boy behind The Partner said, “Man, if they open this door I’m going to fall out!” He was freaked the fuck out. Just then the rear door opened and we all poured out into a dark room: Hell.

Actors were on either side of us, screaming and yelling for help. The Devil appeared and yelled at us about the “choices” we made, “his choices”. Then a door opened behind him and he vanished as we were blinded by a bright white light. We were ushered into the light, which was indeed extremely blinding. An actor said to me, “What are you smiling about? Don’t smile!”

There in the middle of the room was a bloody Jesus hanging on the cross, a la “Passion of the Christ”. An actor crawled in from Hell and pointed to Jesus. “I’m in Hell because I rejected Him! I rejected Him!”

A gal stood in front of us with a Bible in her hands and proceeded to preach at us for at least 10 minutes.

“This whole thing is about CHOICES. Jesus died for my sins and for your sins. We are all guilty. This is all about choices. God made a choice to sacrifice His only son. Jesus made a choice. You can be saved if you surrender yourself to Him. Thousands and thousands of innocent children die because of our choices. Our sins killed Jesus. But unlike Buddha, Ganesh, or others, Jesus is ALIVE and He can save you. It takes real guts to surrender to God, but He’ll accept you just as your are.”

I looked around the room, one man was frequently nodding his head in agreement, two gals were crying.

She read a passage from the Bible and told us the Bible is an “instruction book” we can use to “live our life the way Jesus lived His” and be saved.

After what seemed like FOREVER, we moved to the next room, Heaven. Angels young and old welcomed us, God-blessed us, and showed us to the exit.

But it wasn’t the exit! It wasn’t over!

They had tables set up and people were sitting one-on-one, most praying.

I took a seat with an older woman who informed me they would appreciate it if I answered a questionnaire about my experiences. My head was still reeling with echoes of “CHOICES”, but I agreed to participate.

She asked for my name and age and then got to the questions: How did I hear about this? What were my feelings about this experience?

I told her I thought the production was horrible. She said, “Oh yes, those scenes are horrible, aren’t they?” She thought that by horrible I meant “horrific scenes of brutal reality” but I had actually meant “terrible pieces of Christian propaganda bullshit”.

I clarified myself (sans “bullshit”) and she blinked at me.

“Next question: Which scene was most moving?”

“Geeze. They were all pretty bad, but I’ll go with the abortion scene.” She circled ‘abortion’ on the list.

“Why?”

“Because of the overt Christian propaganda and extreme mis-information they literally spewed at us. That was not an accurate portrayal of a pregnancy termination by any stretch of the imagination – unless we went back in time.”

“What do you mean, ‘mis-information’?” She raised her eyebrow at me. I raised mine.

“Abortion was legalized in 1973. In 2005, we, as women, are able to seek out professional medical establishments and clinics. Pregnancy termination, in all of its stages, is regulated. We were never told the scene was portraying some underground scam. Doctors and nurses are caring individuals who have the woman’s emotions in mind and take care to treat her with respect and kindness, not screaming at her — and especially never physically forcing a woman to follow through with the procedure if she decides not to at the last minute. Plus, they would never throw bloody tissue around the room. And, they supply women with appropriate pain medications – the over-the-top screaming as if from pain of the character was way out of line and extremely dramatic.”

“You don’t think it’s painful?”

“No.”

“How do you know?”

“Because I’ve terminated a pregnancy and I know many other women who have as well. What we witnessed in that scene was a gross exaggeration and you’re guilty of spreading misinformation.”

She started to lose her cool. “How did you feel about your abortion experience?”

“Fine.”

Her eyes went wide. “FUN?”

“No, I said FINE. The experience was FINE. It was the right CHOICE for me.”

“You didn’t think it was horrible?”

“What? The only thing that was horrible was having to cross a pro-life protest line. They were all men – MEN – holding signs with their distorted images of so-called fetuses. THAT was horrible. How do you feel about MEN picketing women’s clinics?”

“Let’s move on. Next question: Do you think you are guilty of commiting sins?”

“I don’t believe in the notion of ‘sinning’, so no.”

“But we’re all guilty of sin. We all sin.”

“That’s not my belief structure.”

“Well, would you like to accept Jesus as your savior? We can pray together for your forgiveness.”

“That’s not something I’d be interested in.”

“Oh. Okay then. Let me show you to the door.”

We got up and she escorted me out of the room. I passed one of our friends, a Lutheran, who was praying with his questioner. The Partner had gotten himself into a philosophical debate with his questioner, and he said that when my lady got back to the table she interrupted their discussion, explaining away The Partner’s argument with “That’s Satan’s work. This conversation is over.”

Having been escorted out of the room, and not having surrendered myself over to Jesus, I waited in the lobby for everyone to finish. One of our friends had been given a copy of The Bible and some other literature. One was an ad for the building we were in, which we learned was the White Horse Christian Center. They had covered their outside sign with a “Final Exit” sign, so we didn’t have any clue what building we were in the entire time.

In the lobby they had a gift shop selling “Final Exit” shirts, hats, DVDs, and, of course, crosses and Bibles. Between the $20 shirts and $9 ticket fee (not to mention the high-priced concession stand outside), I bet this “harvest” was mighty plentiful.

There are so many issues involved in this experience, namely the misinformation we were given during each scene’s preaching, sexism (“nagging wife” but merely a “drunken father”? What about the alluded-to incest and rape? What about the violence against women? The unquestioned family patriarch?), and homophobia.

Oh wait. That’s just their version of Christianity.

EDITED 07-24-08: Link to Journal and Courier article expired.

* EDITED 07-24-08: Company info link expired.

Bible Course Becomes a Test for Public Schools in Texas

When the school board in Odessa, the West Texas oil town, voted unanimously in April to add an elective Bible study course to the 2006 high school curriculum, some parents dropped to their knees in prayerful thanks that God would be returned to the classroom, while others assailed it as an effort to instill religious training in the public schools.

Hundreds of miles away, leaders of the National Council on Bible Curriculum in Public Schools notched another victory. A religious advocacy group based in Greensboro, N.C., the council has been pressing a 12-year campaign to get school boards across the country to accept its Bible curriculum.

The council calls its course a nonsectarian historical and literary survey class within constitutional guidelines requiring the separation of church and state.

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In one teaching unit, students are told, “Throughout most of the last 2,000 years, the majority of men living in the Western world have accepted the statements of the Scriptures as genuine.” The words are taken from the Web site of Grant R. Jeffrey Ministries’ Prophecy on Line.

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I’m wondering, are there no parochial schools in Texas?

The United Church of Christ’s rulemaking body voted overwhelmingly Monday to approve a resolution endorsing same-sex marriage…

[The resolution] also asks churches to consider supporting legislation granting equal marriage rights to gay and lesbian couples and to work against laws banning gay marriage.

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I do not endorse the institution of marriage, but I will endorse equality. It is absurd to deny equal rights to people, but it is even more absurd when the reasons for discrimination are backed by religion, but that’s nothing new.

I took a course last semester entitled, “Religion in America”, and unfortunately, the instructor limited our class discussions, not allowing for debate to take place. All but one of my classmates were religious, one even toting his Bible to class with him each day, and everyone had an opinion on the so-called gay marriage issue. All discussion was cut short before real dialogue could take place.

On a societal level, discussion of issues such as gay marriage works only to separate people onto different sides of some fictional fence – are you pro or anti? It is this separation and preoccupation with labels that keeps us from making real progress. We’re too concerned about who’s fucking who or what some holy book says, neglecting to examine that it is our governments and religions that are fucking us. I fear that when folks think about gay marriage, they think about two men or two women together sexually or think about what their holy book or preacher has told them, and not about who has the right to deny another person equal rights under the laws of this country.

It is beyond my brain capacity to fathom advocating for the denial of a beings’ rights.

Cheers for the UCC!